Clueless Sex

Has your sex life become a boring routine? Stuck in a routine of familiar sounds and positions? When moving sex from the bedroom to the living room fails to pack the punch you're looking for, it's time to face your true desires. Dirty sex is a beautiful thing.

SO WHY AREN'T YOU DIRTY YET? Think about it. You wouldn't be reading this if the idea of kinky sex didn't turn you on. There's something (or many things) you have always secretly wanted to, but something has held you back from experimenting. What is it? For most of us, the answer is 'fear'. We are too scared to break codes of conduct. We are afraid of rejection from our partner. We fear religious and social consequences if our longings escape the safety of our thoughts. Many of us fear ourselves and what we might find lurking in the shadows of our unclean mind. In our efforts to remain socially, morally and psychologically safe, we deny ourselves the divine gift of sexual gratification. To live with this massive sacrifice, we lie to ourselves. We subscribe to myths that tell us married sex just gets boring and that most women don't like sex. Men and women even convince themselves they are sexually 'broken'. Most are, but we can be fixed. Sexual indifference is not a physical impairment. It's a social one. It infects us when we fail to examine the nature and origins of our inhibitions. As children, we accept the code of conduct and morality that surrounds us. As adolescents, the we learn the rules of acceptable adult behavior. As young adults, we begin the process of examining the information we have collected. While we are comfortable questioning most of the values we have been taught, many of us never challenge the nature of our sexual ethics. To have great, dirty sex, we must ask ourselves why we AREN'T having great, dirty sex. What idea or fear is holding us back? Where did that idea or fear come from? Is it valid? If you find, as many of us do, that your attitude towards sex is not your own, it's time to rethink things. Think about your true sexual longings. What would happen if you experimented with fulfilling those desires. Would anyone be harmed? Do the acts violate your moral code, or the moral code you have been given by others? What would the actual impact on your life be? Depending on the nature of your lust, the results could be disastrous. Or, you could open the door to a world of sexual satisfaction that would brighten your outlook on life in general.

Guys, as much as we love getting all prettied up for you, we love it even more when you make an effort to be sexy for us. So if you're craving hot action tonight, try a few of these handy-dandy grooming tips (and don't worry, dudes, I'm not gonna bring up chest-waxing or anything surgical).

1. Get clean. Seriously—take a long, hot shower, clip your Frito toenails, shave, and scrub your ass and ballsack with soap. Women are very sensitive to odors, and while you may pass the sniff test with your buddies, us ladies might be put off by some of your "earthier" aromas. On the same note, don't over-do cologne or aftershave—strong perfumes make our eyes water. Mostly we just want to smell you—good, clean, fresh-from-the-shower you.

“Where is the G spot exactly?” You often hear this question asked and because not everyone is successful in explaining how to locate it and use it to bring about a G spot orgasm, the G spot is almost reaching ‘mythical’ proportions. But make no mistake about it, it does exist.

Release yourself from any ‘magical expectations’. Think of finding where your G spot is as a sexual exploration. If you reach an orgasm, so be it but don’t be frustrated if you don’t. Beside, focusing on the ‘goal’ will only make reaching it harder (as opposed to enjoying the journey itself).

Millard says: I remember the first time a woman put her tongue in my ear. She did a little circle and ooooh … what a rush. And that’s pretty much how all the erogenous zones make you feel. That’s what you’re looking for. The spot that gives your partner that rush, that tingling. So whenever you do something that makes your partner suck in a breath, you’ve found it. That’s where you should pay attention.

A doctor put her hand in the small of my back once and it was a very erotic experience. So don’t overlook some of the more obscure spots on a man’s body. There’s more to a guy than just a penis.

The fourth-largest city in America, Houston is home to a sizeable gay population and several well-organized gay-pride events. The headliner is Pride Houston, which usually takes place at the end of June.

Choose a festival. Attend Pride Houston if you're looking for a big bash. There are other events on the gay calendar as well, so find one that fits your agenda and schedule. You can find a listing of events online at the Houston Gay Guide (see Resources below).

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